double standard much ?

There are a lot of double standards that people live with and accept everyday; especially issues dealing with gender, race and age. My post today deals with the double standards some men set with them and their female family members. My personal viewpoint on sex is that folk should wait until marriage. It's apart of my religion and it also eliminates hurt feelings and future addictions (yes, food and sex are the biggest addictions). I'm aware that fornication outside of marriage is here to stay but why is it that men can date the freakiest, most sexually active women out walking and not see a problem with them but if they have a sister- mainly child, teenager or young adult they suddenly become this overprotective robot (run-on sentence much)?

If I tell a guy I'm a virgin, it's on the next one for him. If his little sister so much to even has a male call her crib, he gives the guy or his sister/cousin/niece a hard time. This brother/cousin/uncle could be a 22 year old, dead beat father with two kids that he doesn't even take care of or hardly knows. Yet he's giving his relative a hard time about guys so that she does get a guy that ends up being like him (without saying that he, himself is that kind of guy ), even if her intentions weren't to have sex with the boy but to see that new hot kiddie flick this weekend.

Even though guys push for this double standard, it can make things a bit worse. Most girls don't stop liking boys, they just become more clever with how and when they meet up with them. They may be more willing to try different sexual activities with a lot of men or even just one guy who may or may not be using her because they can. It's can sometimes be an accomplishment for some people to achieve something when they have already been told that they can't do it.

The best way to set an example for a relative in the dating realm is portraying the person you'd like to see a relative with. Folk are so fixated on worrying about other people when its evident that other people lead by example. You can't make a child become vegetarian if you eat meat ! Think about it.


-andweout.